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83 Horn's avatar

Great essay. Sounds like a song Ray Price would've sung.

Corrin Strong's avatar

Any discussion of the saddest songs in country music would have to include “He stopped loving her today” by George Jones, and, ”The green green grass of Home,” by Curly Putnam!

Bacchus's avatar

He stopped loving her just kills me.

Shaggy Snodgrass's avatar

I'm gonna say that the Louvin Brothers' "When I Stop Dreaming" has a case to be included in this argument. That's the saddest country song I've ever heard, anyway.

Ian Nolan's avatar

Have you not heard of Townes Van Zandt? I would rate either “Marie” or “Kathleen” as the saddest country songs at least I’ve ever heard.

Tanya Lysaught's avatar

What an amazing piece of writing. You didn’t just make the case for “The Last Letter” — you made me feel why it deserves the title, which is a much harder thing to pull off. The way you walked through Griffin’s phrasing instead of just summarizing the song’s sadness said more than any adjective could have.

That’s the mark of someone who really understands both the song and the craft of writing about it. Thank you for this — I’ll be listening to “The Last Letter” differently now.

Angelica Thorne's avatar

A song can give us the shape of grief, but we bring our own losses, fears, and memories into that shape. We project ourselves into the spaces the singer leaves open. Maybe that is why restraint can devastate more than explanation. The song does not have to tell my story. It only has to leave enough room for me to find it there.

Malcolm J McKinney's avatar

Great read. Heartbreaks and hard breaks aplenty in Nville. I was writing there in early 80s.

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Malcolm J McKinney's avatar

Great read. Heartbreaks and hard breaks aplenty in Nville. I was writing there in early 80s.

Send me an email, tell me how you are doing.

Joseph Cullen's avatar

No way this song and it’s presentation beats Hank Williams, the Bard of heartbreak!!!

Stacia.anne's avatar

Thanks for this ! Puts to shame what so called Country Music is today which was once based on the Blue’s, Blue Grass, and a story .

tomji's avatar

Thanks. Very moving. Best wishes on your music career.

Corinne M's avatar

Wow! Wonderful essay. I plan to reread it carefully, when I can give it my full attention. Deserves full attention